You know Ramona, I don't expect you will respond to this anymore than you have any other comment I have ever left. But, here we go again..
You know, being the other woman might have a few perks right now, but trust me, if he did it to her, he'll do it to you. I will be honest and say I have been on both sides of this fence, and both were hurtful, all the way around. The last man I was with ten years, cheated on me, and had a baby with someone else. She had your attitude, but he never left me; in fact, we stayed together eight more years. He still has nothing to do with her, but does see his son. You seem to revel in this like some kind of glory, and it brought back alot of painful memories to me. Time was, when I would hurt so bad the only reason I didn't end my breathing was because of my kids.....apparently you have no empathy for what she may be going through, and no conscience either. But, that's you, and I am not judging. Now...as having been the other woman, I thought constantly of how it would hurt the innocent one involved. NOt to mention it would have destroyed three lives. Am I proud of it?? Hell no..but you seem to be, and I don't understand it.
I know you are one to stir things up, and some like that here. I don't care what you write..usually I don't comment because you never respond./ Maybe you will get a kick out of this, give you a giggle for the day. Maybe you are some very nice person, who just likes to rile the waters and is using her talent to do that. ..who knows? At any rate, I enjoy getting to know people, and often wonder about the person you are. This was written ok, but so in your face that it was abrasive and haughty, lacks class and respect to even yourself. I don't understand why you would put this out there..I see it is a rant, but...do you keep nothing personal at all??
Ok, I will shut up now. You won't respond anyhow. I read what you write because I cannot believe your gaul and audacity at times. Its fine to ruffle feathers, but to disrespect yourself in this way, well, I just don't understand. I have been honest and said things that will taint my rep here, but I am an honest person and those who know me, know I would not intentionally hurt anyone. And as to your question as to who wants to be your Valentine, I have bigger balls than most men I know, more guts and determination than lots of people, and everyone needs a Valentine, no matter how they represent themselves.
PS this is not meant to be inflammatory, but anyone who finds it so may question me about it. This saddened me to read, and I felt I needed to respond. Nothing said was brutal or meant to cause personal sadness, although we are allowed to write things that hurt others..seems odd to me. Free speech, is great!