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Author Name: Freefanofjims 10 Comments
Date Added: March 12, 2006 14:03:12 Average Score: (Needs 2)
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Someone Help~KOBK

Can someone help cuz I dunno what to think

Can someone help my dad think 2ce when he drinks

Can someone help my dad and take away the keys..

Can someone help cuz the next DUI is a felony

Can someone help cuz i'm feeling confused and not sure what to do,

Can someone help cuz these problems aren't new...

Can someone help him and his grandpa end this fued..

Can someone help him put down the bottle..

Let's make it a better place in north colorado,

Can someone help...cuz he thinks he is by himself..

And my dad getting drunk makes my life a living hell



Author's Notes:

This is not james lagoski, it is his son. he jus left in his truck and his computer was still on the site so I posted this, try n help me people cuz i dunno what to do anymore

My Dear Friends-
It seems sometimes even when were older we can always
learn from our children-My son wrote this after one of
my drinking binges-I have decided to leave this posted as a
reminder to myself that I don't just hurt myself when I drink-

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Comment By: FreeLubaina on March 23, 2006 09:28:28 AM Report
You write such deep, sincere poetry that can
cleanse one of their misery and I hope that your
writings do just that for you. You have great
talent and I enjoyed reading your poetry again..

Comment By: FreeDamon D. Brewer on March 21, 2006 06:15:49 PM Report
Tell your son that he needs to get himself an account and explore his on writing abilities. He sure did a good job on this.
Comment By: FreeDamon D. Brewer on March 21, 2006 06:14:23 PM Report
James, you should and probably do consider yourself a very lucky man to have someone worrry about you like this. It has been many years since I drank. So long that I sometimes forget that I ever did. I quit before any of my kids came along; I hope that you quit too. I know from experience that it is not always easy. I know to that it is easier for some than for others. Put forth every effort that you can reach down and pull up; do your very best. It is easy to see that your son loves you and needs you to be there for him as well as for yourself. If I can help in anyway IM me and I will give you my email address.
Comment By: Freepainandlove on March 19, 2006 04:07:08 PM Report
Yeah if anyone can hit you hard it is our children. I have had my share of drinking problems and drugs. Still I may slip but my kids really help me stay grounded alot.
Best Wishes to you and yours~
Comment By: FreeJeff on March 16, 2006 08:49:27 AM Report
Powerful stuff.
As much as we set our to teach our children, many times our children teach us.

Very touching write.
Comment By: FreeFLETCHER on March 15, 2006 09:16:56 AM Report
There was a time when I could not stop my own drinking!
This has touched me deeply. I never thought I was hurting anyone other than myself. I hurt myself SO bad! My own self-centeredness almost killed me! I would be DEAD if I kept drinking 12-28-94 was my last drink.
All I had to do was CHANGE My Whole Life!
My Prayers are with you and yours!
Comment By: FreeGlata on March 14, 2006 08:45:49 AM Report
I was awake all night thinking about this...James, you truly aren't alone, and never will be. You have a son that loves you enough to reach out, and you have a family here that loves you enough to want to help. You know I am always here for you and your family...Please contact me and let me know what is going on, and know that I am always going to be here.
email me at and I'll send numbers where I can be reached.
I love you, my brother...You've always been there for it's my turn. Please allow me that.
Hugs and prayers...
Glata, Your sister in NC
Comment By: FreePoetic Soldier on March 14, 2006 08:15:13 AM Report
Dear James

You are not alone but your poems show a deep understanding and strength that sometimes means we forget you might need someone too, you have always been inspiration to myself, remember you have friends.

Comment By: FreeGlata on March 13, 2006 08:16:38 AM Report
Your dad is a very special friend/brother to me...I live too far away to be any physical good but I will certainly be here for him, you, AND your me and I'll give you numbers and ways to reach me...
Comment By: FreeTracy Fletcher on March 12, 2006 09:17:49 PM Report
Nobody can help unless he wants to be helped. I know the feelings well of living with a alcoholic. If he won't get help for himself you can still get help for you. Look in the phonebook under Al-anon. Good Luck. Very good write.


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